A few weeks ago exH took dd to an inappropriate and very loud concert. She had reduced hearing and ear pain for days, then an ear infection and still has ringing in her ears and random pain. The GP says she'll need a hearing test 6 weeks after the exposure to the loud noise/ear infection if her hearing is still affected or she still has pain. She managed to go to school on antibiotics but had little sleep and in the end needed two days off just to rest and catch up on sleep.
Now his gf and their ds are ill, to the point where he cancelled midweek contact because he had to take days off work to care for his ds as his gf was ill in bed and his ds became ill too and was briefly admitted to hospital. I appreciate they can't help being ill, but with dd still in pain from the last health issue and having only just missed days of school, I'd really rather her not catch whatever they've got. Particularly as he's supposed to have her tomorrow pm until sat pm only, then he isn't planning on seeing her for 3 weeks. So just enough time to make her ill then leave me to look after her/pass it on to her siblings/pass it on to me while heavily pregnant.
AIBU to be annoyed that he keeps knowingly letting her get ill then leaving me to deal with the consequences and causing dd to miss school?