To have snapped at DH

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I'm working from home today (day off really but have a pile of paperwork to catch up on.DH has just come home early come to the study to see what I'm doing. I explained how much I've got to do and why. He then suggestively asked what w could do to fill in the 20 mins before school bus arrives at which point I snapped "do all the work I've just told you about". He's off now with tail between his legs and I feel a bit mean but come on, TAKE A HINT. WIBU? And AIBU to now be wasting what time's left on MN?

I'm working from home today and could really do with a quicky tbh

YABU!

Afternoon quicky V paperwork? YABU

Yabu

Paperwork can wait always time for a quick one when the kids are not about.

Yanbu. Quickies do nothing fir me, it's all about the guy getting his.

He can wait til later :o

Hmm see both sides. I get annoyed when I'm clearly very busy and so not in the mood, but other times its nice just to stop what im doing for 20mins or so to have time together whilst no kids about.

its too hot you will get sweaty and stink for the school run?

I'm not really a quickie person either. Nothing appealing about getting hot, sticky and messy - especially when there is other stuff to do oh the romance

tell him it should take longer than 20 minutes anyway he is short changing you

Yabu.

I wouldn't chose mumsnetting, sorry 'paperwork' over a quickie!

Yabu!

Why is she BU. Should she have sex regardless of whether she wants to or not just because her husband decides he's up for it?

YANBU

YANBU, but I guess he is not being unreasonable to suggest it.

Saying that you have stuff to do, YWNBU.
Making DH wish he hadn't suggested it YWB a bit snarly.
Secretly spending time on MN instead, ooh sneaky.

Oh is unreasonable to snap at DHs?

YANBU.

Yanbu.

DH has the most awful timing. The other day I was cleaning out the food waste bin at the kitchen sink when he came up behind me and put his hands around my waist suggestively.

Seriously? I'm elbow high in rotten-veg juice, F off!

no... 20 minutes takes the pee, could of done it for himself in that time :P