Not sure if I'm just tired and hormonal or genuinely being reasonable.
DP works away all week and comes home on weekends. I'm 38 weeks pregnant and a SAHM to our 4 year old. We don't have lots of support from family so I'm left alone with DS all week, the only break being the 3 hours he is at nursery. I'm starting to get really tired now and am finding it hard to cope with DS and his energy.
It's his 4th birthday next weekend, we're having a party for him at soft play in the morning and now I've found out that DP plans to spend the rest of the afternoon out with friends as there's an England game on. To be honest I'm not feeling happy about it and don't want him to go. I know he needs downtime after working all week but I also need a break from DS, or at least an extra hand looking after him.
He went out last weekend late afternoon and was hungover and tired all day the next day, that was fine and I could put up with that. The weekend after the party he is going to his cousins wedding which again will take up most of the weekend.
AIBU to tell him not to go out after DSs party? I feel like I'm being controlling but I'm so tired on my own now.