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AIBU?

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To have taken toddler DD to nursery despite her being unwell?

81 replies

CrohnicallyHungry · 30/05/2014 08:19

She has a cough and cold (and has done for several weeks now). It seems to get better for a short while but then comes back with a vengeance. Not sure if it's the same virus each time, or whether she keeps picking up new ones. But I'm putting it down to starting nursery, she also had rotavirus a month ago and is just struggling to shake these viruses off.

Anyway, I gave her calpol this morning as she woke very early coughing and crying (with each cough like it was hurting her). When I dropped her off at nursery they asked me to fill a form out documenting what I had given her. I did so, chatting with another mum who was doing the same. She asked the nursery worker if all the children had these coughs, so I told her my DD had it. During our conversation I also let slip that I had the day off work but was bringing her to nursery anyway as she has only been going a few weeks and only just getting past crying at drop off.

I now feel like this mum must have been thinking 'WTF? Her child's ill enough to need calpol, she's not even at work and she's leaving her child at nursery to infect the others!"

In my defence, as well as the settling in, I am taking my car in for repairs and will be sitting around waiting for it for an hour, and while DD could come with me, I'm sure she'll have much more fun at nursery.

So, AIBU to take her to nursery despite not technically having to, while she's feeling grotty with a cold and disturbed night? Or did I do the right thing and being kept active will keep her mind off it?

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RiverTam · 30/05/2014 17:06

doubtless herald will be back saying that's karma for you Smile.

heraldgerald · 30/05/2014 17:08

It was harsh and rude. I don't like to make personal attacks and for that I'm sorry. I found the ops attitude offensive and wrote a knee jerk response. Tbh the repost was a weird phone error. I do find this kind of attitude to ill children in nursery a real point of anger. It's messing with other children's health and therefore parental livelihoods. I do think it's selfish, to send your child in I'll and especially after giving calpol, that I stand by.

heraldgerald · 30/05/2014 17:09

*ill

Coldlightofday · 30/05/2014 17:31

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heraldgerald · 30/05/2014 17:41

Yeah I am sorry. I was way harsh. This thread has really got to me. People talking utter balls about my child my judgement etc. If your child is ill enough for calpol then they are too ill for nursery. Deep breath.... and pressing the hide button.

HayDayQueen · 31/05/2014 11:39

I don't agree - if we're fill off colour and need to take a bit of paracetamol or ibuprofen do we stay home to avoid spreading our germs? Why are children any different, or should they suffer needlessly?!

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