to get involved with preg friend living abroad who's husband has cheated at least twice

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Hi,

Friend lives in Canada, moved there eight years ago and lives in husband's flat. They have a five y/o and she is preg with another one. He has been unfaithful at least twice, once recently while she was preg. She says she can't leave him, hes a pleasent guy that spoils rotten the kid and she had the kid over there so doesn't think she can leave the coubtry.

Its really getting me angry, should I try to advise or leave her to it?

Just be there for her.
Take your lead from her and support her to do what she wants to do. Don't lay down the law or tell her what you think she should do or you'll shut down a possible escape route for her.
It is hard though but sit on your hands and be there when she needs you.

OK thanks, I know that's the right thing to do, shes just being so downtrodden I want to give her a shake, but guess its not my place :(