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Is this racist??

126 replies

LogicalPreference · 29/05/2014 10:20

Colleague has the day off and it's his birthday so I'm decorating his desk (my assigned task). He's a good friend and is obsessed with Bob Marley.

I wanted to make it more personal so was going to turn his desk into like a tropical warm theme with bamboo etc

A colleague just said to me that it's really racist.

Is it racist?

OP posts:
KellyHopter · 29/05/2014 12:02

Any chance your colleague means that it's possibly questionable that you have honed in on this one thing, the liking Bob Marley, as in the birthday boy is black, is an amateur photographer, obsessed with Game of Thrones and sushi and also happens to quite like Bob Marley - so choosing the one thing that is stereotypically linked to the colour of his skin to focus on could seem slightly lazy?

I don't know obviously, just thinking. Don't even know if birthday boy is black - you say Muslim but that's a religion.

Gunznroses · 29/05/2014 12:03

I love MN! where else do you get this kind of debate Grin

softlysoftly · 29/05/2014 12:22

Stick a gollywog with a guitar on the desk with a donut.

You may as well piss them right off.

NigellasDealer · 29/05/2014 12:24
Grin
Viviennemary · 29/05/2014 12:25

I don't think it's racist but I think this kind of thing at work is a bit silly. Offices are bad enough places to work without this sort of idiotic behaviour. Sorry.

MyLatest · 29/05/2014 12:28

Do what Phoenix said. Much easier :)

Hoppinggreen · 29/05/2014 12:30

Do you actually have any bamboo?
Who keeps bamboo handy just in case?

NigellasDealer · 29/05/2014 12:31

and the right kiind of bamboo as well?

unrealhousewife · 29/05/2014 12:31

What's Bob Marley got to do with bamboo?

I think it is a bit off. Not sure if it's racist but is doesn't feel right.

unrealhousewife · 29/05/2014 12:39

Grin OP your post at 10:38 is assuming that your colleague is objecting to your suggestion because he is Muslim and therefore is more likely to accuse you of racism?

GrinGrinGrin

Gunznroses · 29/05/2014 12:39

Wouldn't it be easier to just buy colleague a Bob Marley CD (but perhaps his got them all already)? or just buy him a card wishing him a happy birthday ? or is that too easy.

unrealhousewife · 29/05/2014 12:41

Just get him a cake, or some donuts (not Jamaican flag coloured)

Trapper · 29/05/2014 12:52

Bob Marley theme because someone is black: racist
Bob Marley theme requiring everyone to black-up and wear Afro wigs: racist
Bob Marley theme because someone is a big fan: not racist.
Donut jokes: Awsome.

MyGastIsFlabbered · 29/05/2014 12:55

I've seen bamboo growing in Jamaica! (Sorry am a bit late to the party!)

YeGodsAndLittleFishes · 29/05/2014 13:12

Would he have to take the bamboo home? Is he a keen gardener or likely to have any other use for the bamboo? Won't your ElfnSafety persons be tutting and scribbling furiously on clip boards in a non birthday like manner?

snice · 29/05/2014 13:23

I think it's only racist if you all black your faces and sing 'Exodus'

LEMmingaround · 29/05/2014 13:28

So you want to make a tropical scene for your muslim friend because he/she is a big bob marley fan? and you are being racist??? righto!!!

But never mind that - tell me about this desk decorating thing? I have never heard of such jolities in the world of work (i need to get a job if this is the case!)

LEMmingaround · 29/05/2014 13:31

To be honest - if you want to have a more realistic representation of Bob Marley then maybe recreate a "yard" in the desk, so im thinking some corrigated iron, some grafitti and of course some ganga!! Can have bamboo if you like because i have in my mind bamboo trays from the 70's

One love xx

YeGodsAndLittleFishes · 29/05/2014 13:34

And 3 of those little easter chicks sitting on the doorstep...

LEMmingaround · 29/05/2014 13:39

one of these

Is this racist??
LEMmingaround · 29/05/2014 13:41

Too much??

Is this racist??
NigellasDealer · 29/05/2014 13:41

and one of these maybe?

Is this racist??
gorionine · 29/05/2014 13:44

bamboo and Jamaica

Goblinchild · 29/05/2014 13:45

Don't be daft, bamboo isn't the plant that Marley is most associated with.
Get him some of these.
www.cannabis-pictures.com/cannabis_plant.jpg

BuzzardBird · 29/05/2014 13:53

Thing is, Muslim is a religion, not a race so still have no idea where the Birthday Boy actually comes from. There is definitely bamboo in the carribean but am totally flumoxed at the 'racist' thing.

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