However I have been a single parent for going on 30 years. My oldest is violent bi-polar druggie, my two teens well act like teens especially 18 year old daughter., my 11 yr old with adhd ,odd, social anxiety, have custody of 9 yr old granddaughter . Have never had help from dad. 30 yrs of doing 100%. I am grumpy and tired . I feel bad I cant enjoy them like I should I just want them to grow up and go. They argue non-stop and noise never stops. Was much easier when they will little. Lol