To please, please ask for your positive stories of people getting well having been on HDU/ intensive care

[grobagsforever]

DP was admitted last week and moved to HDU last night. They don't know what's wrong. He has fluid on belly, some kind of infection and impiared liver function. There is talk of moving him ti ICU. We seem to be waiting on endless tests. He is 35 we have a three year old and I am 7 months pregnant. I need him . Please tell me your positive stories of recovery from these situations.

Hope today gone ok. X

Been thinking of you. Hope today has been kind.

I've been thinking of you today. Hope it's been a better more positive one for all of you x

Just dropping by to say you've all been in my thoughts.

Hope you've had an easier day today xx

Hope today has been better, Grobags.

Hi all

In a defiant mood today. Going to get DH's nausea under control so he can eat and get strong. Then the cancer can fuck off. His anti sickness has been reviewed, am getting him some anti sickness bands and aloe Vera to help. There are3,500 cases of cancer going into spontaneous regression, DH will be 3501. Someone has to win the lottery after all.

FUCK OFF CANCER.

Yeah. FUCK OFF CANCER

We're behind you Gro

Good to hear from you Grobags & am so pleased you've managed to find some strength to fight & keep going.

Here's to cancer effing off xxx

Great your feeling so positive. Sending good healing vibes to you both!!!!!

Brilliant Gro
What anti sickness have they got him on now?

Any news of a plan yet?

Great post Gro! My lovely friend has breast cancer. We've renamed it cuntcer and it can bloody do one. Thinking of the Gro family often and sending you love and light via the power that is MN!

Yes that cancer can F off as dh will be number 3501. Thinking of you and sending healing thoughts your way xxxx

Also it's my birthday today so my wish today will be.... It be ok gro you see! X

check with the doctors about Aloe vera - side effects include nausea stomach pain and vomiting. Natural does not necc = harmless.

IFHC xxx

When I had cancer I had an anti nausea drug called domperidone (I think) which worked well for chemo nausea.

Gro glad you're in better spirits today. Hope the new anti nausea medication kicks in soon. If he is still struggling the on call doctors will be able to seek advice from the Macmillan team over the weekend - it shouldn't need to wait until Monday. They are the experts in getting symptoms like this under control.

Are you getting any rest? Have you made any steps towards finding someone for you to talk to? The Macmillan teams usually have access to excellent counsellors and given your position am sure you would be a priority.

Will be thinking of you.

Good for you gro! Thinking of you.

Glad you're in better spirits grobags. And yes, fuck cancer. Fuck cancer right up the bum.

Hope your dh is continuing to improve and you're continuing to feel positive x

Yes, I'll subscribe to the F. Cancer gang. I hate it. How dare it do this to you & your lovely family. Tell it to F. right off -x-

Just adding another FUCK OFF to the list.

Cancer is evil.

All of us affected by cancer would like it to fuck off.

I don't see cancer as evil as such.
Cancer doesn't think or seek us out or come and get us.
It's just something that happens.
I see cancer as a thing that just happens to some people when some cells change and become malignant.
It can happen to any one of us and is awful if it happens to our child or us or anyone we love and care for.

One day, hopefully, there will be a cure, but I think that some cancers will take longer to cure than others.
I think different cancers will have different cures.

But it isn't personal.

I read once that if you have had children you are hugely less likely to get uterine cancer.
Yet my Grandma died from it and she had four children.
My Mother died from, they said, lung cancer aged 86, yet she never smoked.
DH has prostate cancer and is currently being treated for it, hopefully it will be stopped in it's tracks.