stbeh dating..

[Dextersmummy14]

Its killing me. All he's done is chatting to women online, its horrible. I don't want him and I don't want anyone else to have him. It hurts :(

Might help if we knew what 'stbeh' meant. Why can't people just write words? Your post was short enough that it didn't need abbreviation!
In any case your "I don't want him and don't want anyone else to have him" is unreasonable in the extreme!

Soon to be ex husband

In which case I retract my comment... slightly. That is a difficult and emotionally complex situation. I hope you get through it. X

It might help if you start dating as well. Or at least browsing a few dating websites. Your relationship with him is over, so he hasevery right to date, but so do you.

I don't want him

You left him. He's now dating other people, or considering it. I know you know you can't have your cake and eat it - you must have left him for a reason.

Keep reminding yourself of that reason and think about dating other people yourself.

How do you know about it?