We had our 12 week scan and went to book in our 20 week one. Dh said 'oh I just thought it would be really special for my mother to see a scan esp as this will be our last one. I said, no you're only allowed 1 person. He said oh well we can always ask and maybe swap over. I said, do you not want to see the whole scan, I would be uncomfortable with that etc. Then later we were in the car speaking to mil about other things and dh said 'this is our scan, maybe you can move various dates around so that you'll make it'. I said think it will be difficult to move dates, one person allowed etc but trying to be tactful. Then tonight mil over and in front of her dh says so I really hope you can make the scan etc. Anyway went into various other conversations (eg. what about my mum) but ended up blowing up, making me feel very uncomfortable in front of mil. Told him he doesn't put me first and is selfish. Which he thought was totally unreasonable. Who is bu? Ps. Thanks if you got this far!