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Do I need counselling or it's ok to feel like this

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gg1234 · 22/04/2014 00:43

Hi all
I have no clue what has happened to me after my delivery . My Ds is just a month old and he needs full attention.i feel so jealous when my hubby goes to office and I stay at home with the kid . Recently a frd gave some vouchers as a gift and out of sheer frustration I just tore them apart becoz my hubby said some really annoying things which I was not able to take .sheer anger you can say . After my kid my work opportunities hard taken a toll and so my freedom to live but nothing has affected my husband . My hubby says it's insane to feel so mad after a job when he is providing what are your views

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DoJo · 22/04/2014 00:49

I think it might be worth seeing your GP if you are having trouble keeping control of your emotions - it's natural to have a whirlwind of hormones, but you sound unhappy about your new role in life so maybe you could benefit from a little extra support. Is your husband supportive or is he having trouble understanding how you feel? Do you think you are annoyed with your husband because of the things he says or does or because of your frustration with your situation? If you don't feel as though you want to stay at home with your baby for the foreseeable future then you don't have to, but it would be worth exploring your feelings to ensure that there isn't more going on.
I hope you find some answers - it sounds as though you are having a tough time so don't be afraid to ask for help.

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