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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

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Original poster

to think that a fiance IS in fact a family member?

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Alliwantisaroomsomewhere · 14/04/2014 20:25

Ian wants Jane to be in the family photo because she is Bobby's mum (and his business partner as he keeps saying), yet he does not want Denise in the photo, despite her being his fiance.

That's SO unreasonable, isn't it?

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thebody · 14/04/2014 20:34

JenBehavingBadly · 14/04/2014 20:35

Has bobby just got out of the shower?

HighwayRat · 14/04/2014 20:36

Did Sharon do the t-rex in the shed?

DamnBamboo · 14/04/2014 20:37

Yes, but did Denise insist on having her playboy in the photo too?

aermingers · 14/04/2014 20:38

Not sure. Because I don't know who Bobby or Jane are. But personally having my own wedding pictures and some other important family events around the time a bit spoilt by a relatives fiance who did not become a wife in due course, personally I would wait until they were actually married to include in future.

PinkyHasNoEars · 14/04/2014 20:38

Is this a comprehension test? Will there be questions later?

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Alliwantisaroomsomewhere · 14/04/2014 20:38

Puhlease, people, keep up!!

Anyway, it 's all done. Denise was excluded.

Bobby had not been the shower - no chance of a dream sequence, I am afraid.

East Enders, and stuff.

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StillStayingClassySanDiego · 14/04/2014 20:39

I bet Denise is well pissed off.

rinabean · 14/04/2014 20:40

If it was a picture of Bobby's parents Denise needs to back off.

Are you Denise? You have to at least say which one you are! YABVU for using 3 names when you could have used 2!

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Alliwantisaroomsomewhere · 14/04/2014 20:42

Denise is well grumpy!

Wait till Ian finds out about Fat Boy, though. Woooooo.

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PinkyHasNoEars · 14/04/2014 20:43

YABU.

NuggetofPurestGreen · 14/04/2014 20:44

Denise is unreasonable for being engaged to Ian in the first place!

Alisvolatpropiis · 14/04/2014 20:46

Jane isn't Bobby's mum though is she, biologically speaking?

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Alliwantisaroomsomewhere · 14/04/2014 20:46

Too damn right, Nugget!

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MammaTJ · 14/04/2014 20:48

This photo is about the business though, which Denise is not part of. Jane is. I don't think Bovvy is though either, nor The Blonde Stroppy one who is shaggin Max, nor The Blond Fluffy haired moody looking lad. Oh well!

NuggetofPurestGreen · 14/04/2014 21:00

Yeah Laura is Bobby's mum surely?

I'm confused now.

WeAreDetective · 14/04/2014 21:02

Didn't she ( and by that I mean Jane) adopt Bobby?

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Alliwantisaroomsomewhere · 14/04/2014 21:03

Jane adopted Bobby.

The young blonde and Max shagging story line makes me so uncomfortable - she looks like a 12 yr old playing at being grown up.

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WeAreDetective · 14/04/2014 21:04

And yes, YABU because you have to draw the line somewhere, otherwise, at this rate everyone in the square qualifies to be in the family photo!

NuggetofPurestGreen · 14/04/2014 21:06

That's true Detective Bianca and David and all the Jacksons would have to be in it too

NuggetofPurestGreen · 14/04/2014 21:07

Or whatever Bianca's surname and kids' surnames are these days.

EdithWeston · 14/04/2014 21:08

Soap opera question?

Vintagecakeisstillnice · 14/04/2014 21:13

Isn't it Phat Boy rather than Fat boy

(Is down wiv the kids.)

NuggetofPurestGreen · 14/04/2014 21:15

No I think it's Fatboy. Cos his surname is Chubb innit.

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