If being a single parent on benefits is such an easy lifestyle choice, how come we don't see hoards of unemployed NRPs or working parents of giving up their jobs and clamouring to take on the role?
You can't work outside the home and care for your own child full time. If you are no longer in a relationship with the other parent, and if they don't contribute adequately in terms of either money or time, how exactly are you supposed to be able to work?
For a start you'd need a 9-5 job to find childcare. That's a tall order in itself these days. Then there's the small matter of affording it. Even with government subsidy it usually leaves parents who are entirely dependent on professional childcare living below the poverty line. Believe me, I know. Want to know how much my childcare cost for one year? £18,000. That's right - £18,000 for a 9-5 job for two children. That was using a bog-standard combination of CM and nursery. I earned £20,000 in those years and got a £80000 contribution in terms of tax credits (which included the child element). That left me with £12000 a year to keep a roof over my head, pay my bills, feed and clothe the three of us, travel to work... Think life was fun on less than £1000 a month (don't forget tax and NI) when just housing costs took up more than half of that instantly? I earned too much to qualify for HB or any other benefit apparently.
4 out of 5 working mothers (yes mothers, because few studies bother to examine fathers, what with childcare being a woman's responsibility and all
) rely on childcare provided by family and friends because that's the only way they can afford to work.
If you're a single parent with an NRP who doesn't pay maintenance (60% of single parents aren't getting any), you don't have family and friends to help out, what exactly are you supposed to do?