Or perhaps just buy a token like a photo frame or something?
We are going to a wedding which is about 4 hours away from us. We will incur petrol costs and maybe hotel costs (might be able to stay with family). Hopefully no costs for new clothes but it's possible. This is going to really stretch us as I'm on maternity leave.
Also and I'm pretty sure I am BU here they didn't get us a wedding present or even a card last year. They had no travel or hotel expenses.
What do you think? The petrol alone (around £100) is going to take a couple of months to save up.