AIBU to think that sometimes my friends/family/loved ones have little moan about me?

[BillyBanter]

And sometimes they get exasperated if I repeat the same mistakes etc. Maybe two mutual friends talk about me when I'm not there and share opinions over things I have said or done that annoyed them or made them worry, and that that's ok.

Not 100% sure what you're asking.....

Are you asking if they're wrong to talk ahout you?

or

Are you asking if we here think they're talking about you?

People will always talk about others, it's human nature I'm afraid. You will waste far too much time and energy thinking and worrying what people are saying.

What mistakes have you made?

YANBU. It's true for all of us and doesn't mean we're not loved.

No I'm thinking they are not wrong to talk about me. As you say we all do it.

I don't want to overhear what they say! I don't really get the offence at people 'talking behind your back'.