Right ds attends cadets and one day about 4 months ago ds mate asked if I could pick him up as his mum works shifts and the kids are not allowed to walk round in there cadet uniform after what happend in the solder in lewsiham
I live two minutes from the base the boy lives about 15 minutes at normal times however at rush hour when we need to leave it takes about 45 minutes to get there which is not on my way may I add and back to the base on time
So it ends up this has become a regular thing however the boy has inceasingly been giving me next to no notice of when he needs a lift so he has beening ringing me at 10 to 6 and I would need to pick him up at six to get to the base for 7 ffs
And this has happend a lot I wouldn't mind but do you think the mum offers my lad a lift when she not working 
and without a lift it means he can't go we did ask why he can't get the bus down and change when he gets there but no answer to that one
so today he rings at 7 asking for a lift we're out side the bloody base ffs so I said no and just came home
AIBU he also expects me to still pick him up if ds is not going to cadets