to JUDGE relative for getting pregnant so soon after meeting new partner when she already has DCs by someone else?

[JudyMcJudge]

Relative just got married again last weekend. She has been with this man for a year. She is 6 months pregnant. He is 10 years younger than her (mid thirties)

She already has 6 DCs. None of them attended the wedding as it would have cost too much to have them there .

She got divorced from their father a few months back. DCs no longer see him, nor does he pay for them (not excusing that at all). This lack of contact has been instigated by her as she does not want him around apparently. They are all about to move 200 miles away to live near new husband's family and the father of the DCs does not know about this as she said she 'hopes he gets a shock when he finds the house empty'.

AIBU to feel think WTAF!

You can judge as much as you like, but it's a bit of a waste of your time and energy, don't you think?

Judge away.

Yawn.

Hopefully the children will have a good father figure and supportive extended family network.

If their dad wants to see them he can pursue through court.

Their welfare is your business, her conduct is not.
Yabu