Ok, in my defence:
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they asked if I knew anyone that could do with hearing an 'uplifting message' and
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He has been known to invite them in and have long conversations with them about life, and quite enjoys the chat/challenge
(but when they asked who he was and I said 'my ex', they gave me a look that suggested I was doing it for all the wrong reasons... and they may well have a point if I'm honest.....)