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to not like it when people refer to children with Chicken Pox as having The Pox

50 replies

hootloop · 19/02/2014 15:53

It is probably just me but to me they are two very different thing.

Chicken Pox, a very common usually (although sadly not always) mild childhood illness.

The Pox, nasty sexually transmitted disease mostly associated with the past. More correctly known as syphilis.

Am I being unreasonable to cringe a bit when someone says or posts that their child has 'the pox'?

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Fontofnowt · 19/02/2014 15:56

Small pox too.

I like to wish small pox on the shithead that invented the heat sealed hard packaging.

ShatnersBassoon · 19/02/2014 16:04

Cringe away. It's obvious what they mean though, I doubt anyone hears it and thinks a child has syphilis, or plum pox or small pox...

ShatnersBassoon · 19/02/2014 16:04

Cringe away. It's obvious what they mean though, I doubt anyone hears it and thinks a child has syphilis, or plum pox or small pox...

Wabbitty · 19/02/2014 16:21

or cow pox....

EmmaBemma · 19/02/2014 16:23

Good grief.

GoodnessIsThatTheTime · 19/02/2014 16:23

We've called it the plague.

Bubblegoose · 19/02/2014 16:23

Seriously? So when someone says 'my DD's got the pox' do you have to double check that they don't have syphilis?

ReadyToPopAndFresh · 19/02/2014 16:33

yabu.

hootloop · 19/02/2014 16:37

No, I obviously don't need to check.
I just don't see the need to call something by a name that has a not very nice alternative and well understood meaning.

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Pumpkinpositive · 19/02/2014 16:43

Is this what is otherwise known as a first world problem?

CoffeeTea103 · 19/02/2014 16:45

You really do need some perspective. Who has the time to nitpick over such nonsense. Hmm

hootloop · 19/02/2014 16:45

Well then, fair enough its just me. I I won't change my opinion but I will accept I have to add it to my list of unreasonable ones.

Although I am surprised nobody else thinks this way.

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Yonineedaminute · 19/02/2014 16:46

Is this what is otherwise known as a first world problem?

The very definition pumpkin!

HyvaPaiva · 19/02/2014 16:47
Confused
hootloop · 19/02/2014 16:47

Need some perspective, jesus christ I never said my life revoled around it, just wondered if it was just me.

Some people take their mumsnetting far to to seriously.

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Yonineedaminute · 19/02/2014 16:48

I can honestly say that I pretty much couldn't care about something less than I would care about this particular issue.

miaowmix · 19/02/2014 16:51

I think you may be a little too sensitive?

hootloop · 19/02/2014 17:03

I think you may be a little too sensitive?
Not really, I only said cringe a little bit, no different to anyone on here who posts I don't like whatever phrase or word they don't like.

I already said I would add to my list of things that are unreasonable.

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cardibach · 19/02/2014 17:12

'The pox' for syphilis is outdated though - nobody uses it now. It's become slang for Chicken Pox. It's a bit like the argument about the word gay. A new meaning has taken precedence, you don't need to cringe even a little bit.

hootloop · 19/02/2014 17:18

I know it is outdated, although I come across it quite often in the course of my history degree, when reading diaries and letters. Maybe this why it bothers me as outside of mumsnet and social media I have never heard it said refering to Chicken Pox.

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littlemisssarcastic · 19/02/2014 17:25

I don't think it sounds particularly nice to call chicken pox 'the pox', but it washes over me.
What I hold great objection to wrt chicken pox is that 'chicken pox' get togethers/parties are still going on.

A friends child has come down with chicken pox this week, and at least 3 mutual friends have asked if they can go to said friends so their child will hopefully catch it and get it out of the way.
Perhaps they are joking, or are attempting lighthearted humour about it but it's not funny. I reserve my judgement for those parents who go to any length to deliberately infect their child.

I don't spout my opinion on it, I just hoik my judgey pants up. Grin

FunLovinBunster · 19/02/2014 18:37

Are there not more important things to obsess about?

BadgersRetreat · 19/02/2014 18:42

See i'd think small pox, not syphilis. Thats the Clap Grin

someone calling it "the pox" to me would just be a joke.

OhYouBadBadKitten · 19/02/2014 18:46

but what if they have smallpox or cowpox or monkeypox? Very interesting family of viruses there.

I think its ok to summarise chicken pox as the pox.

YoureBeingASillyBilly · 19/02/2014 18:51

I agree OP.

I always thought if small pox- didnt realise it could also mean syphillis. But yes i Hmm when i see/hear people saying their dcs has 'the pox'

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