Took ds to see his grate grandma (exs grandmother )today at the hospital she's not long for this world ( few weeks at most )
First time I have been up there ds went with his granddad last week
So we stayed about an hour then before we left I said to the HCA who was tending nanna
thanks for doing a good job she's being really well looked after
Which she is in my view
The HCA then replied I hope you mean it 
I was like what the hell to my ds
Oh thinks maybe the other family eg ds grandad and gate auntie have complained
But AIBU to think that's very odd think to say