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To get the rage when adults say Ta?

115 replies

SingingGerbil · 14/02/2014 18:25

First world problem I am aware but this really gives me The Rage. Anyone over about the age of 5 should not be allowed to say this I am looking at you DP. In fact I am not that keen on under fives saying it either.

Phew, just had to get that out Grin

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BringBackBod · 15/02/2014 09:55

It's not pointless as it has a meaning.

MrsDeVere · 15/02/2014 09:59

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Dawndonnaagain · 15/02/2014 10:01

Dragged up in Wimbledon. Definitely not common, use 'Ta' frequently.

southeastastra · 15/02/2014 10:02

i say ta very much quite alot but i've southern and common as muck, hell i even eat sausage rolls on the street

LustyBusty · 15/02/2014 10:24

I say "cheers ta" as a sign off to pleading emails. or "ta muchly". northern and proud, living on the south coast.

OOAOML · 15/02/2014 10:25

I'm Scottish and I don't say ta or cuppa. Don't drink tea either (unless herbal). I find cuppa grates on me far more than ta.

Preciousbane · 15/02/2014 10:33

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MojitoMadness · 15/02/2014 10:55

I'm Northern, everyone around these parts says it.

Catsize · 15/02/2014 11:04

zing, that was what I figured, and so far so good.
Ta-ta as 'goodbye'... Oh, a whole other AIBU.
And wasn't 'our Cilla' a 'ta-ra' sayer rather than 'ta-ta'. I must make more effort to remember these important things... Smile

ZingSweetApple · 15/02/2014 17:26

yes, she did say "ta-ra", very good!Wink

I'm not English and I used to wonder why she pretended to be a little trumpet! Grin

TaraLott · 15/02/2014 18:02

Ooops, soz.

TaraLott · 15/02/2014 18:07

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TaraLott · 15/02/2014 18:07

Fucking KNEW that wouldn't work. Grin

ZingSweetApple · 15/02/2014 19:14

tara

do four stars

ZingSweetApple · 15/02/2014 19:15

ZingSweetApple · 15/02/2014 19:15

like that

RevoltingPeasant · 15/02/2014 19:24

It is funny what people consider "speaking properly". My parents are both educated people from the north of England and would say ta, love, and my dad used to use dialect words like summat or clemmed.

On the other hand, we were always told it was whingey and sloppy to speak with long As, to pronounce Ls as W (Middwesex, eg), or to miss Ts from the middle of words (wa'er for water). These are all southern things, apparently.

It's all pretty much just prejudice. It is fine if you want your DC to grow up speaking with your dialect, but it would be a vast shame to lose the richness of English dialects. Also calling "ta" baby talk just looks ignorant, when it's such an ancient word.

I don't say it but I don't think dialect is kids' stuff, either.....

ChasingDogs · 15/02/2014 19:27

s'up wi thee OP? Ta in't pointless, means 'thank ye', ai'ght? Nah 'ushup 'n 'ave a Wine.

Bloody hell, it's almost impossible to type how I speak. I've had to add in all kinds of extra letters just to make it almost legible. Thank fuck for the written word. Somebody remind me to take a small chalkboard to carry round my neck next time I have to venture south of Chesterfield Grin

TaraLott · 15/02/2014 19:28

Whaddya mean four stars?

Like ?

TaraLott · 15/02/2014 19:29

Ooooh, yes!


I can remember that one, cannot remember all those bloody square brackets.

TaraLott · 15/02/2014 19:29

TaraLott · 15/02/2014 19:31

Anyway, I say Ta rather a lot. Grin

KatnipEvergreen · 15/02/2014 19:32

Personally it gives me the rage when southern softies put an R in everything.

Fucking PARSTA...LARTE...BARTH...Hmm

LRDtheFeministDragon · 15/02/2014 19:35

Oh, do grow up OP. If you're old enough to judge anything as being childish, you're old enough to understand how dialect works.

TaraLott · 15/02/2014 19:37

Well I do declare, as a southern softie myself I rather take issue with that regionist talk.
What is a Larte?
Do you mean Lattay/Latte?