I really don't know the genuine risks and the midwives are just saying it's dangerous...but if a third of women have it in their body can it really be that likely to hurt the baby? I won't do anything to risk the baby obviously.. just need some answers that aren't based on a "no risk" perspective from the hospital iyswim? If I go to hospital it's very likely that I will have to go alone and dh will have to stay home with children.. I really cant face it by myself :(