Argh :/

[Mamagoose01]

AIBU to be annoyed DH has completely messed up all of the cleaning tidying an house work I spent 2 hours of child free time (DS was with his nan) doing yesterday, in making a cauliflower pizza

Too darn lazy an had man flu lmao

Why "no way would he do it himself" ??????

Hopefully this is a rare occasion.

His nature to mess everything up an the walk away for someone else to sort it out

That's not nature, that's nurture.

Brightnearly- too bloody true, your spot on there

My spot?

Actually I think that would be quite nice, like a Tomatoey cauliflower cheese?

OP are you a secret agent from the cauliflower pizza board?

I can't get my head around this. Surely you just say something like, "Love, I spent 2 hours getting everything clean this morning, would you clean the mess up?" or perhaps, "do you want a hand cleaning the mess up?".

Honestly, the housework-related threads totally bamboozle me on here.

We often use cauliflower as a rice alternative, makes lovely "special fried rice" but the mess of it! It's actually pretty hard to mince a cauliflower (ready to steam) without getting white bits every where! Not tried it as a pizza base, but have used almond flour, and frittata (thin sliced courgettes and sweet potato or yam base, lots of eggs poured on top) makes a really good "pizza" if you throw some traditional pizza topping on before baking.

That sounds lovely too using a frittata base. And less messy.

Maybe you should suggest to your husband OP?

Harroldloyd- lmao no I'm not a secret pizza agent but it did look nice lol

Logg1e yeah that's true but always get some kind of disregarding comment an end up doing it otherwise it gets left, what's your secret to getting it done by the offending party?

I really don't know Mama! It just doesn't occur. I read these threads (and listen to my sisters-in-law make similar comments) and just feel so perplexed. I don't understand how it happens in a relationship and don't know what to say to you (or them).

Ohhh frittata base, don't think DH would stand a chance, I would have to eat it all he he

Logg1e do you get your DH yomake speeches an do training days I'm sure it would be sought after advise an life skills

He disent bite her cleaning up because YOU always do it.

Walk and say I cleaned up yesterday and YOU are doing it today, as fair is fair.m

Bother..

I don't know what to say. Tidying up after yourself is just part of being an adult. In our house it's part of being over the age of 4 probably. It's hardly a life skill.

How does it get like this in a relationship??

Harrold Lloyd I like that plan, note to self to try it

Everlong- yeah I know but I have to say it was only the base that's was colli an it did look yummy

Log, my DP was horrendous when I moved in with him.

Some people (not gender specific) are just filthy animals.

I had to take a HARD line!

A man who can wash up after himself should deliver training days?

Fuck me.