To Feel Hurt

[OneUp]

that DP would rather wait years to have an expensive wedding (the place we looked at wanted £6000 for a wedding with catering) instead of getting married in the registry office.

I probably ABU but I feel hurt that he'd rather have a showy day than have me as his wife.

If you are not religious at all....why would you want to he married!

How offensive is that? I'm an atheist and married. I got married because I love my husband and we wanted to commit to each other, blah blah blah. God doesn't come into it.

Anyway, back to the OP. I don't think YABU to be upset. Weddings don't have to cost a lot. Marriage is about so much more than 'the wedding', which is just one day.

if you are not religious at all… why would you want to be married?

And the prize for the stupidest thing said on mumsnet goes to...

Op apologies.... completely misread your opening post....due to Gin I see it's you that wants the registry office wedding and partner wants to wait....