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to think some people should step away from FB for the good of humanity?

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CharlieAlphaKiloEcho · 27/01/2014 22:45

Now I know what you are going to say..... unfriend, step away, remember there is life beyond the laptop but I am so shocked I had to post here to stop my knee jerk reply being a bit...er... frosty.

My 'delightful' cousin has just posted this:

"Some of the so called Muslims in this country should be forced to wear their burkas, to save us looking at their ugly faces."

I will unfriend her. She posts multiple links to dailyfail stories and I kept meaning to but never did. This has floored me though.

It will cause no family grief if I reply to her so should I? And what should I say?

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UnionofMultitaskers · 27/01/2014 22:48

Wow!! Id report the post. Its anonymous.

CharlieAlphaKiloEcho · 27/01/2014 22:51

Can you report a status then? I looked at the drop down box and it says 'I don't want to see this'. Does that report the post?

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Mintyy · 27/01/2014 22:53

"What should I say?"

Cousin, I am defriending you because I am disgusted by this horrific racism.

CharlieAlphaKiloEcho · 27/01/2014 22:56

Yes. That about covers it Mintyy.

I guess it looks more dignified without the swear words I was considering!

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Wolfiefan · 27/01/2014 23:00

Unfriending sounds more than fair.
Shame you can't unfamily too.
What a weird thing to post. What does "so called" even mean? People aren't really Muslim? WTF?!

CharlieAlphaKiloEcho · 27/01/2014 23:03

I wondered that too Wolfie.

WTF indeed.

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Lioninthesun · 27/01/2014 23:08

I've had to do this a couple of times on my new found cousin's page. He is a little ignorant to say the least and if it's not boobs/fanjo's in spangly pants it's 'defend our country against the invasion from overseas workers!' etc etc.My fave was one about women in burkha's having a school picture taken (hilaire clearly) until I pointed out women in families strict enough to be made to wear burkha's more than likely wouldn't be allowed any education, so the scenario would likely never arise. Killjoy, me? Wink Usually I comment and add a topical link from Indie or something very neutral on the subject. He must love me Smile I do think it has stopped him just posting without engaging brain...a little.

curiousgeorgie · 27/01/2014 23:11

Is your cousin a teenager?

Aside from the racism it's just pretty childish language in general.

CharlieAlphaKiloEcho · 27/01/2014 23:12

I just asked her what us ugly atheists should wear to protect her delicate eyes....

I would like to find a link to post about racism though.

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Lioninthesun · 27/01/2014 23:13

I do think educating, or attempting to at least, is the way forward.
She can always block you for trying Grin

CharlieAlphaKiloEcho · 27/01/2014 23:16

She is a grown women curious.

She just replied with some crap about how I shouldn't think I'm ugly and my pretty DD is proof blah blah blah.

I think she's missing the point.

I knew I should have followed mintyy's advice!

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Lioninthesun · 27/01/2014 23:19

You could send her a link to the BNP and tell her you have discovered her a new hobby, before saying Mintyy's quote and 'toodle-pip'!

CharlieAlphaKiloEcho · 27/01/2014 23:24

I don't think there is a chance of ever getting through to her.

Sometimes I honestly worry about the future you know? I'm a little bit scared for my DC growing up in a country so full of hate and racism Sad

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ShoeSmacking · 27/01/2014 23:30

Keep posting until you can't anymore, then block. I had to block some obscure relativesa while back because my blood pressure couldn't take it

I always wonder if these people would say such things in public? It never ceases to amaze me how they think it's ok to make comments like this on fb.

CharlieAlphaKiloEcho · 27/01/2014 23:33

I'm a dammed sight better looking now compared to how I was when I was young. I was a freckled faced, bacon rasher. Now I get compliments and my youngest daughter is stunning, she started out with an oblong head, ginger hair and not Bonny at all, now, wow! I think our lot improve with age.....bit like a good bottle of wine.

^ That was her follow up comment. I hope her daughter doesn't read this!

Ugh.

Unfriend time. I don't have the energy for it.

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IneedAwittierNickname · 27/01/2014 23:45

When you click 'I don't want to.see this post' it asks why, you click on it again and there are choice to choose from, one of them is something about it being hateful (i think). I assume that reports it.

I unfriended someone this week, his status' always seem to be so angry, with the occasional boring football shite thrown in but his declaration of "all them fucking foreigners should piss of back where they came from" was the nail in the coffin.
I don't miss his bile at all and wish I'd done it sooner.

CharlieAlphaKiloEcho · 27/01/2014 23:48

I've just reported it and unfriended her.

Feel better for it really.

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brokenhearted55a · 27/01/2014 23:54

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LastOneDancing · 28/01/2014 00:13

I had a block-fest this week.

I got rid if anyone who posts pics/statuses involving dead or dying animals, children with birth defects ('one like = one prayer' my arse), never ending minor illnesses, made up health scare crap and racism.

It's back to all babies, sunsets and kittens. Lovely.

thesnowmanrocks · 28/01/2014 07:35

I got sick of frigging fb, Angry

So I just tried to delete my account, (only don't think you can get rid completely?) Angry

Oo, it did feel good though! Smile haven't been back since! Smile

YouTheCat · 28/01/2014 07:40

I have reported and blocked a few racists on facebook.

My newsfeed is all kittens, cakes and tattoos. Grin

Magicstars · 28/01/2014 07:43

Urgh she sounds awful. Well done for unfriending. I do this now too whenever someone writes something offensive on Fb, no matter who they are. Hopefully something will come of you reporting her.

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