My ds was with a young lady for five years from the age of 18-23. They broke up 8 years ago and I still have contact with her. She recently had twins and I met for lunch. She talks to me on facebook and also visits my own fil.
Background info she was really in love with my son and he treated her badly. He has a new partner now for the last five years who he treats great from what I can see but this other girl was really infatuated with him. My son doesnt talk to her and hasn't for many years.
Am I being unreasonable or unfair to the new girlfriend by maintaining a relationship with my son's ex all these years?