Hi. I have only just joined this site after coming across this post.
I have been a 'Lunchtime Supervisor' for a few years now. I take care of Reception children. In my opinion the most demanding year. They start full time at this age, find themselves eating dinner and then out to play with children they hardly know. It's our job as supervisors to help them form little friendships. Luckily for me in the school I work at, Supervisors have a very good relationship with the teachers, after every lunchtime there is a discussion about how child X got on, who played with who etc. I DO think that supervisors should be available for parents to have a chat to, to ease their minds. It's a worrying time for parents passing their kids over, and lunchtimes especially are a worry for most parents, wondering if their child is making friends or sitting alone. I remember my children being at school and me worrying each dinnertime. YUP worried myself into a right state. SO I now attempt to pal children up, get them playing.... Children adapt very quickly, much quicker than their parents do I think.
Teachers have a class of 25 or so children, sitting at tables or on mats, they have TA's etc, Lunchtime supervisors have the same amount of children, they have to get these little people from one part of a school to another, get them dinners, encourage them to eat, fill waters, juices, then get them all lined up again to walk out onto the playground SAFELY....
I LOVE my job, absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE it. I love to send those little kiddies back to their classrooms with full bellies and knowing that they have made a few friends along the way.... hopefully me being one of those friends.
It is tempting to spy on the playground... I know I thought about it a few times. If you are concerned go speak to a teacher, maybe ask if you could speak to the LTS.