We have been split up now for almost a year after he cheated on me he is now living with ow and yes I am fucking pissed about it but what can I do? So anyway he is a shit dad and is constantly letting dcs and I down now all of a sudden because of the new year he says he is a changed man (yeah right) and wants to be more involved with dcs he hasn't seen them for longer than an hour since Xmas and spoken to them for all of 5 mins either. So I blocked his number and only call him when dcs want to talk to him which isn't often I spoke to his mum this week and she told me that he wanted to have them this weekend and as I am not comfortable with dcs at his with other woman I said no but he can pick them up from his mums and take them out which he agreed to now I have been at his mums since 11am and he is still a no show and is not answering his phone he only lives 5mins away and I refuse to run after him. So Aibu to have had just about as much as I can take and fuck him off for good I cannot take much more.