i have had the complete opposite. My daughter has been seriously depressed since her father left in 2011. It was clearly a reactive depression and I went to get her help. I did not want or expect pills for someone so young - but I did not expect to be passed to CAMHS and then be on a waiting list for months and months. Eventually, she was given CBT - despite the fact that she was now suffering from hallucinations and sometimes could not function at all. She ran away, she tried to chuck herself under a car and there were lots of quite serious physical things.
TWO YEARS LATER - we got a shrink appointment and had confusing and contradictory advice. The shrink thinks that it MIGHT be organic, as my daughter does not have her periods yet. But she says that it IS depression - very serious depression. Then in the next sentence told my daughter that she must go to college even if she is depressed/having hallucinations.
That was a month ago and since then we have heard nothing of the report, of the doctor's referral that was promised. My daughter has lost her place at college - she was unable to function. The sleeping pills do not work and make her feel sick and do not help the insomnia. She is scheduled for therapy.
TWO FUCKING YEARS this has taken. Still no real progress and my daughter is now in limbo.
I am all in favour for trying lots of different avenue for low mood/depression. But when someone cannot function and it stretches over such a long period, it's the time it takes that really makes me angry.
So no - not my experience at all and we need to be careful about flippantly saying that everyone gets a depression diagnosis and a pill. It is simply not true.