But no one has said that CBT works for everything/everybody! There are other types of therapy to try, but again, these look within a person for the answers.
Or there is medication....which some people don't like.
I wonder what else people think there is? i really do empathise as I have had long-standing clinical depression myself, hence why I trained in that area of work. Whilst depression is a real illness, it is in OUR brain and bodies, therefore we do have to look to ourselves to some degree and take responsibility for our illness. My depression is not my fault, but how I handle it is. If it was completely caused by external factors, then everyone would get depressed in exactly the same circumstances, but they don't. Therefore, it is something in us, be it chemistry or whatever.
Until we get the magic wand waving cure, then therapies or drugs is basically what there is. Either utilise them or don't, but how on earth do you think someone can solve all your problems for you?
Claudius - maybe CBT was combative because it's meant to challenge your perceptions? Or you could always stay stuck in negativity? In your ideal world, what would the therapist have done??? 