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tooworriedforwords · 21/12/2013 17:16

Dp and I were watching hollyoaks (for those who aren't familiar there is a storyline about a woman who hadn't been sti tested and has gone a number of years with untreated chlamydia)
I said she was stupid and ofcourse if your sexually active you get tested. Dp then says he's never been tested..
Im gobsmacked and skslightly concerned. We've been together years and have two children.
Iv never been sti tested whilst with him. I have no symptoms but I'm a little worried and unsettled by this. What if Iv got it and Iv had it all these years and Iv given birth and everything!
P.s I'm abit if a hypocondriact...

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tooworriedforwords · 22/12/2013 10:04

They actually don't test for chlamydia or gonorrhea mumofweeboys. It's just not a routine test.

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TallyHoHoHoGrenshall · 22/12/2013 10:15

I've never been tested (apart from pre natal)

OH has only been tested before he gave blood so I presume HIV, Hepititis etc.

My friend was tested when her ex cheated, and an acquaintance has been tested many many times and generally has something. The concept of safe sex hasn't occurred to him despite the fact that he could be infecting others. He is a massive twat

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