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to ask how to deal with my Narc boss

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FunnysInLaJardin · 13/12/2013 22:58

OK MN I need your help. I have a narc as a boss and need help to deal with her.

She is late 50's with a family and a total nightmare. She has variously stolen from my old boss by awarding herself and another director a payrise without telling the other 2 directors, crushed any request what so ever for any changes unless they were her idea, refused me a new printer and copier when mine stopped working as the company couldn't afford it, constantly questioned the whereabouts of her very loyal members of staff while taking weeks off because her donkey had died, allowed her sister lots of extra holiday and working half days because it suits her family set up. She crushes any fun in the office by her very presence.

If anyone questions her she starts crying or plays dumb.

I can't work with her much longer, but while I do any tips? Luckily I can be out of the office for a fair while each day but I have to be near her for a good few hours. I fear I may kill her unless MN can guide me!

OP posts:
lessonsintightropes · 13/12/2013 23:00

FFS this is ridiculous. Sorry you have to deal with such a nightmare cah. Get another job would be my advice :)

softlysoftly · 13/12/2013 23:00

What's a Narc?

Vintagecakeisstillnice · 13/12/2013 23:03

Leave.

FunnysInLaJardin · 13/12/2013 23:14

I am going to be sending my CV out in the new year but realistically have a good few months of this shit. We have just moved into a new open plan office and so while previously I could hide myself away and ignore her existence, I now have to see her hideous face every day.

I need tips for the next few months!

Oh and softly a narc is a person with narcissistic personality disorder.

In fact a typical trait was when my old boss asked her what the fuck she was doing stealing from him she said 'how could you think I would do such a thing'. I mean WTAF is that all about!

Oh and she also used to ring me when my old boss had left for the day at say 3pm and say 'where is he, what am I paying him for?'. This was a 69yo bloke who was on half days, had had a nervous breakdown and had owned the firm for 40 years before her time. She is an utter cunt

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RoseRedder · 13/12/2013 23:50

are you slightly jealous of her>

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