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AIBU?

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Original poster

AIBU to think people should not answer the phone during sex

45 replies

Sadoldbag · 09/12/2013 13:38

Video called my sister yesterday so she could get a butchers or our new baby and she was naked had the covers so you couldnt see nay rude bits.

I didnt recognise the room so asked her what she was doing and why she had no top on she was in the middle of shagging and the girl was hiding under the duvet.

Oh thinks its kinky i think its rude and i mean why the hell did she answer and The random who was hiding under the duvet should have said hi at the very least.

Rude rude rude

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YNK · 09/12/2013 13:47

I answered once, just in case it was one of the kids having a crisis!
It was Sky.
The man said "Mrs YNK, as a loyal customer I would like to offer you a small reward" I said no thanks and hung up - or so I thought!!!!

The man at sky must have heard my OH say " Now Mrs YNK, as a loyal customer I would like to offer you a large reward!"

Oh dear!!!!

2Tinsellytocare · 09/12/2013 13:57

It's more offensive to the person you are having sex with than the caller surely!

Original poster

Sadoldbag · 09/12/2013 13:59

I wouldnt mind so much but it was a video call

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Beastofburden · 09/12/2013 14:01

Was she pissed?

Did they break up after your call?

If she liked the girl she may be a bit cross with you now...

wanderings · 09/12/2013 14:01

(answering phone) "Bridget Jones, wanton sex goddess with the very bad man between her thighs... Mum!!"

SweetSeraphim · 09/12/2013 14:02

The random bird under the duvet would have been more embarrassed than anyone! I wouldn't say hello!

DownstairsMixUp · 09/12/2013 14:02

:O If i was the other person I'd be mortified!

juneybean · 09/12/2013 14:03

My ex did this and I had to just wait until she had spoken to her mother and then her cousin.

kotinka · 09/12/2013 14:04

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ilikeFISH · 09/12/2013 14:06

Many years ago

Both myself and my then boyfriend have taken calls during sex. However we both had jobs that required us to be available all the time.

Wouldn't take a video call though, well I might have done back then but with the camera obscured by a thumb

QuintessentialShadows · 09/12/2013 14:07

"Video called my sister yesterday so she could get a butchers or our new baby"

Come again, why did you ring her?

Why do you video call people?

MammaTJ · 09/12/2013 14:08

No way, sorry much too busy enjoying myself to answer the phone!

SqueakyCleanLibertine · 09/12/2013 14:12

No,I wouldn't have answered a video call from family while I was having sex, it's weird, embarrassing (for everyone) and totally unnecessary.

Smoorikins · 09/12/2013 16:01

To be fair - you don't know what the other woman was doing while she was under the covers - maybe saying hi was out of the question...

Golferman · 09/12/2013 17:57

We often answer the phone to my sexy SIL, we fibd it v horny trying to keep quiet while I fuck the wife and she chats lol

2Tinsellytocare · 09/12/2013 18:03

Bleeurgh

SolemnHour · 09/12/2013 18:04

LOL at smoorikins! Is she young by any chance sounds like something a teen would do

OddBoots · 09/12/2013 18:06

Thee need to be new rules for video calling if it is going to be a thing. I propose that one should send a warning text first asking if it's an okay time before calling.

mrstigs · 09/12/2013 18:09

golferman if your wife can still chat to her sister whilst you are in the middle of a shag you are doing it wrong.

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 09/12/2013 18:11

Can't think of any good reason why somebody would answer whilst determined to continue...

ipswichwitch · 09/12/2013 18:22

Surely the sex can't be that earth shatteringly fantastic if you're able to hold a sensible conversation at the same time? If it was then its usually only the vowels tht you can say......
I've heard of multitasking but that takes it to a whole new (grim) level

UnacceptableWidge · 09/12/2013 18:26

YADNBU rude
Very rude
I'd hang up and anyone answering a call mid-deed with me wouldn't get it again for a very long time if ever

RockPaperScissorsLizardSpock · 09/12/2013 18:33

mrstigs

GimmeDaBoobehz · 09/12/2013 18:37

Oh no, I hope this never happens to me. I'd feel so embarrassed for them (as well as myself).

I have answered my phone a short while after doing something intimate and just whilst we were at the kissing stage but obviously stopped. Why on earth would you answer?

Misspixietrix · 09/12/2013 18:37

YNBU but this thread has me

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