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Encouraging right handedness in toddler

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Pearlsaplenty · 25/11/2013 08:13

My 2 year has been showing a preference to using his left hand so I have been encouraging him to use his right hand by passing him thing to his right hand, kicking balls to his right side etc. I know it is very bad to force right handedness and I would never do that.

I would prefer him to be right handed as I know it is easier for general everyday living and also I have family members/friends who have said that it is more difficult to be a left handed when it comes to music eg learning guitars upside down if there is no left handed one to use.

Would I be unreasonable to ask his nursery to also encourage this?

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GuybrushThreepwoodMP · 26/11/2013 11:10

Are you fucking serious OP? Jesus. Let him use whatever hand comes naturally to him. Anything else is ridiculous. I am a leftie and it is no disadvantage, other than occasionally struggling to use a ton opener.
Honestly I find it shocking that you could think it is appropriate to encourage a child to go against this. Why??? Handedness is not nurture, it's nature. Children have developed stammers and serious psychological problems because of this kind of thing.

MonkeysInTheFog · 26/11/2013 11:13

This subject is on TWS tomorrow morning Hmm

BatmanLovesIckyBarry · 26/11/2013 11:14

Aaaaaand... guess what The Wright Stuff is talking tomorrow? Grin

OP, I understand that you have good intentions, but it's unfair on your DS to try to influence what isn't coming naturally. Leave him be.

Horsemad · 26/11/2013 11:25

Hmm, more proof that TWS read MN! Grin

Can't think up their own topics. Perhaps OP was one of their 'researchers'. Hmm

burberree · 26/11/2013 11:28

hahahahahaha i thought it sounded a bit fake now you mention it Grin - if TWS start on about Cobain and Hendrix we will know for sure!

SkullyAndBones · 26/11/2013 11:34

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Unexpected · 26/11/2013 11:36

Oh ffs! Why is The Wright Stuff so chuffing lazy??? Employ some proper researchers for a change!

BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability · 26/11/2013 11:39

It is my lifes ambition for one of my mn posts to be read out on there (or maybe quoted in the DM) Grin

GuybrushThreepwoodMP · 26/11/2013 12:43

Lazy researcher. Although we should be sympathetic. He / she was probably hoping to get a job on a proper programme.

gamerchick · 26/11/2013 13:47

It's true as well.. so do they do a thread or just trawl for topics on here.. or both? Hmm

They've got KH on as well.. she's like frigging margarine.

Cantabile · 27/11/2013 14:48

Burburree, there are a couple of bits and pieces which need adjustment, as well as stringing a guitar upside down, but dh says it's small stuff and not a problem.

He doesn't understand why anyone would bother though. Just use the left for chords and the right for strum/plucking.

DoesZingBumpLookBigInThis · 27/11/2013 15:23

Not reading thread, but about the guitar - to make any ordinary acoustic guitar left-handed just have to re-string it "upside-down"
dead easy.

DD is 20 months and although she is using both hands she is showing left-handed tendencies.
wouldn't bother me.
you can get loads of things made for left handed people nowadays, from scissors to tools.

I actually think at this age it is way to early to know which hands will be preferred.
best to wait till older.

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