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AIBU to not be devastated that my DS has red hair

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EvenFlo · 19/11/2013 09:33

I have a beautiful, healthy 7 week old son who is smiley and basically gorgeous (biased of course).

But shock horror he has a mass of red hair!!

The response I am getting to this from some people is utterly ridiculous - 'oh don't worry it will change', 'oh I am sure it will go blonde', 'oh he is lovely regardless'. This is usually accompanied by slightly sympathetic head tilts.

WTAF - he has hair that might be red (or dare I say ginger) - he doesn't have a bloody life threatening illness or contagious disease. It's just hair!

Does anyone have any suggestions for suitably cutting responses to these comments. It maybe I have it wrong - maybe having red hair is far more terrible than I am realising.

Rant over.

OP posts:
miaowmix · 21/11/2013 18:00

Alexandrite you are right I guess, 'put off' a bad choice of words. You too Shiny - I didn't see it from that point of view.
All I meant was it is rude to make negative comments about any colour hair really. I personally love being a brunette.
Time to reclaim 'mousey' from negative connotations? Wink

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