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AIBU to not want my child to go on this trip?

168 replies

OooWhatToDo · 14/11/2013 18:09

Some parents opinions would be appreciated here please; DD has got a class trip tomorrow with 2 other classes to the local Woods which is only a 5-10min drive away. Normally I wouldnt worry or shirk a class trip whatsoever, but it really isnt settling well with me at the thought of her being outside in the woods from 9.30am - 2.45pm in these low temperatures.
We take them up there all the time & love being outdoors, but after an hour or so at this time of year the cold sets in & they're ready for central heating!
Apparently there is a 'centre' there with toilets, but we've never seen this & think they maybe slightly glossing over their description when its nothing more than a large glorified shed with a few toilets.
Am I worrying needlessly? If it was just the morning they were going for & back to school for lunchtime id be totally fine with it, but all day despite the cold weather?? If she doesn't go then it'd go down as an unauthorised absence mark on her record.

What should I do?

OP posts:
amothersplaceisinthewrong · 14/11/2013 20:59

Of course she should go. Take off the cotton wool and wrap her up in a warm coat, hat and gloves.

judgejudithjudy · 14/11/2013 21:26

pmsl @ cotton wool - no, keep it on til spring ;-)

Canthaveitall · 14/11/2013 21:31

Wrap her up she will be fine. It's the UK not Norway.

BristleWorm · 14/11/2013 21:33

Lord, let your kids LIVE a little for goodness sakes!

UnicornsNotRiddenByGrownUps · 14/11/2013 21:58

YABU completely. Kids go to scout camp at this time of year and are outside all weekend and sleep outside too.

gimcrack · 14/11/2013 23:02

She will be fine.

If she usually complains if being cold when taken to the woods, she's either underdressed or bored. She shouldn't be either on the school trip.

redshifter · 15/11/2013 07:42

FGS. Too precious. Relax

killpeppa · 15/11/2013 08:38

yet another bullshit thread.

if its you daughter say daughter, if its your niece your a bit of a weirdo for calling her your daughter instead of niece.

hope you got the message that this is ridiculous.

pianodoodle · 15/11/2013 08:39

The mornings are starting off cold but even in the past half hour it has warmed up a good bit.

Even if it didn't, it can't be less than 3-4 degrees that's definitely not weather to worry about :)

pianodoodle · 15/11/2013 08:40

I don't see why it matters really if the OP is asking on behalf of someone else.

It doesn't change the responses it's still the same question Grin

Joysmum · 15/11/2013 08:41

So said that you have such little faith in the school.

They are more experienced with children than we parents and it's in their best interests to ensure they don't have a class of 30+ kids who are cold and not getting anything from the trip.

mrsjay · 15/11/2013 08:47

it is a wee bit chilly not the antartic put her hat on and I hope she has a nice time and I am sure the staff will judge the temp so they dont get hypothermia to cold

bonkersLFDT20 · 15/11/2013 08:49

I'd let mine go. My 4 yo is at forest school this morning. Granted it's only for the morning, but they LOVE it. Loads of layers, water proofs (in all weathers), gloves, hat. They won't just be sitting around, they'll be running around having masses of fun.

I think it's great that schools take children outside. It's beautiful out there today. Sunny and cold with little wind. They will soon be roasty.

AllThatGlistens · 15/11/2013 08:52

I love that apparently parents of children in Sweden have opinions that aren't applicable in this situation..

Yes, because clearly they have no experience of children being outdoors in cold weather Grin

Dressed in appropriate clothing, she won't get cold.

AnnieJanuary · 15/11/2013 10:14

Where on earth do you live? It's cold weather, not poison. There are people in Siberia who still put on a coat and go outside. Think of Canada and Alaska and Russia. We in Britain don't know real cold.

zatyaballerina · 15/11/2013 13:59

Lined winter boots, thermal vest, thermal tights, top, winter coat, hat, gloves.... dress her for the weather. My two year old is out most of the day in all weather, they won't get sick if appropriately dressed and running around warms them up anyway.

allmycats · 15/11/2013 14:38

It's not even properly cold yet FGS
Still, your child, your choice. The poor little bugger will miss out on the experience that the others children are having and all the classroom
follow up work. But, of course you know better than all the other mums of the kids who are going.
What will you do with the child when it really gets cold - are you planning on trying to hibernate ?

imnotwhoyouthinkiam · 15/11/2013 14:57

2 (or possibly 3( years ago, we camped for a weekend in November. There was a field and an unheated barn. No hot water to warm up in the evening (unless I used my dads caravan shower, which meant a quick shower not a long hot soak). Ds2 was 4 or 5 at the time.

It was freezing, we didn't take our coats or hats off ay all, all weekend. But it was fine. Yabu

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