Hey all, a little off the 'child' topic but hey...
I'm a single dad, got a 2 y/o little man, we're quite content with it just being us, it's how its been almost forever.
However, my friend introduced me to a really lovely girl, very pretty, my age, and I ended up agreeing to go for a few drinks with her, my friend, and a few others. Ended up walking her home that night as she was absolutely out of it, that was all, am not a big believer in 1 night stands, and as I said, she was extremely drunk, and that was that.
She text me the next morning expressing her displeasure at the fact that I had not come in etc, and I just told her exactly what I said above. She laughed it off, and asked if I'd like to meet up again for a drink or two. I said yeah, why not, and we went for a casual bite to eat and had a few drinks. Throughout our conversation that night, she just seemed... a bit too keen, I think is the way to put it. Immediately started asking about my son, when she could meet him, things like that, and it really put up a red flag for me.
Once again, walked her home, said goodnight, left it at that. She text me the next day asking when we're seeing each other again, suggested bringing DS along with me. I politely and gently suggested that perhaps we should just keep things at a friendly level. She then accused me of leading her on, and that I should 'give us time'. 
AIBU here by backing off? I really don't feel like I've lead her on, but then, I've been told some women see it differently... I'm definitely not ready for another serious relationship, and I am very reluctant to start introducing my boy, particularly to someone that seems so keen to jump into something this quickly.