You've got the Christmas lights festival and ice skating opening on Nov 16th in the gardens, and the Christmas market, food, drink etc in the square from the 14th.
Russell-Cotes museum is free admission for the next few months, and the land train is running between Bournemouth and Boscombe pier over the weekends. The beach is lovely in all weather IMO
unless it's windy... I hate wind.
The tapas restaurants are nice, there's a lovely place called Lolita's up at the triangle. We've had a lovely meal plus wine for about £20 a head there.
Moving along toward Boscombe, the chine gardens there are nice, and if you've ended up at the beach take a walk on the pier. I like Chaplin's/Cellar Bar, a nice quirky pub. The food there was excellent but the chef has changed since I last ate there so I don't know how it is now. Live music there too if that's your thing.
The precinct isn't derelict like some have said, but it's not somewhere you would go to shop really, mostly supermarkets and poundshops, but there is the market on Saturdays and the charity shops are good. Some of the more interesting and vintage-y shops further along:
Flair
Cotton Candy
What Alice Found
Clobber
The Crooked Book
Some more here but if you love vintage maybe give Molly's Den in Poole a look.
When you've got through Pokesdown, head down to Southbourne for some more lovely shops, wander through Fisherman's Walk and try out Café Riva. The. Chicken. Is. Divine. I dream about it. Nice atmosphere in the evening, but I've only been once, I'm poor
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And do visit Christchurch, it's beautiful. The castle, the priory and grounds, the Red House museum, mill and the quay are all great, and free. You can easily spend hours there.
Still in Christchurch, there's a harbour cruise, various Christmas craft fairs, and further along is Highcliffe Castle.
Personally, I'm not fond of Poole and can't think of a great deal to do there even though I'm from there!
Hope that helps. Check out the BIC website if you want to see a show.
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