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Friendship

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livinglifeandgettinghappier · 02/11/2013 13:58

AIBU to think my closest friend's new guy is jealous of her friendship with me? Nothing concrete, just a vibe he gives off. I don't like his FB posts either - ranty, precious and attention seeking. Also he keeps tabs on her FB, if I have something on with her that he does not know about he messages me and asks me about it. The relationship is serious. Has anyone had a problem with their female friend finding love but as the female friend of the woman you have been unable to take to the love interest? I find myself, now, backing off mentally from anything that involves seeing him. I would not remove him off FB but am being careful what I post.

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SoleSorceress · 02/11/2013 14:17

Continue to follow your gut instincts and your reaction is healthy. Just let her see for hersself who he is and try to be there for her. Keep in touch and meet up just don't post about it. Have telephone chats.

Branleuse · 02/11/2013 14:25

thats really sad.

Be there for her

LondonNicki · 02/11/2013 19:18

Sounds like a controlling personality. Don't let him cut you out of your friend's life....she may need your help one day.

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 02/11/2013 19:23

Look after your friend. One of mine had this. It escalated to following her around and checking on where she was. She moved in with him a long way from home, it ended up so bad that she had to do a runner whilst he was at work and apply for a restraining order.
Im not saying that this will happen to your friend, just please keep an eye and be there if she needs you.

Retroformica · 02/11/2013 19:34

When he asks you about something next time tell him he needs to learn to trust her. She is an amazing and honest person

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