Dp went out with some friends last night, I had a lovely evening with dd, watched a film and then got to bed at about 11.
dp came home at around 2, came upstairs with the sandwich I had made him, turned all the lights on up the stairs, on the landing and in the bedroom (halogen spotlights not our softly lit bedside lamps 
).
He sat on our bed and ate his food then gets into bed, forgetting to turn the lights off so asks me to turn them off as I'm closest to the door and is shocked when I say no 
. he turns the lights off, gets back in bed and cuddles up to me (obviously wanting sex) I tell him I'm tired, will be up with ds in three hours whilst he sleeps his hangover off and am not in the mood after being woken up by him switching all the lights on. so he went in a huff because I was already awake so he couldn't understand why we couldn't have sex.
tbh if he had got in bed without all the drama and woke me up with a cuddle there wouldn't be a problem but I was tired and grumpy.
so AIBU for being annoyed at being woken up like this or is he??