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To get annoyed at people who grab a table in cafes while their friends/partners queue up and order?

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silverphotoframe · 20/10/2013 16:33

Went to a busy coffee shop this afternoon. Long queue etc. By the time I got mine, I was left waiting along with a few other people who had been served before me standing around with our coffees in our hands waiting for someone to leave and/or ask if they minded someone sitting at their table. What really got my goat was that there were 3 tables that were taken by people who had friends/partners in the queue and therefore did not have their drinks/food yet. I see this a lot. Sometimes the amount of time it takes for someone to queue up, order and get their food/beverages is around the same time someone else could have sat down and finished what they ordered.

Luckily after a short time, a table became free which I was able to take. It just annoys me that people do this. I think if we have a queuing system for food etc surely people with the food should get first dibs on the tables. Would it ever be appropriate to confront someone and turf them off their seat?

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toobreathless · 22/10/2013 01:29

I'm often by myself with DDs (2.5 and 6 months) as DH is away for 6 months. I simply use the buggy & changing bag to reserve a table. Usually leaving one DC there too as long as its not too far away. If I tho j anyone might have the audacity to move said buggy I leave the break on- it's almost impossible to work our how to get it off unless you have one

It's really not sensible or safe to be queuing with a double buggy and DD (who walks 95%) off the time hanging around my knees while I try and order. Then a staff member would be taken up carrying my tray over as I would be pushing the buggy.

So YABU

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