aibu to think my dh should apologise for cheating on me

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In a dream last night?

Horrible dream, I woke up feeling sad and insecure. I told him and he gave me a big kiss and cuddle and ruffled my hair in a 'aren't you a daftie' kind of way.

But I think he should apologise but he doesn't think he should.

Aibu?

Oh that's harsh!

I can't believe people think this is even vaguely humorous. Slow night on MN!

Only read OP so far.

YANBU.

I dreamt DH had cheated on me once and I couldn't help feeling off towards him all day. I didn't want too, I just couldn't help it. He also tried to say he wasn't responsible for what he did in my dream. I put him straight and he was very sweet.

Oh candy, why so serious?

oh bloody hell MNHQ clearly that was a joke!!!

I didn't really shag David Beckham!!!

I dreamt the other night that I was a Hispanic housekeeper spider. I had a court appearance for the baby daddy of my 200 children to pay his way.

That is quite true.

I'm not serious, that's the point. I could do with a laugh but I was disappointed.

I've just read the OP out to DH, them mentioned that he's been really nasty to me in dreams (he's very nice in RL). The first thing he said was "Sorry love, I didn't realise"

"I'm sorry you're a nutter" That's as close to an apology as you're going to get on this on OP

^one

I had loads of those dreams in my first trimester! They're really real aren't they? I felt horrible every morning. Then I started having bloody dreams like parts of my body would start bleeding, like my hand or my foot.

Hormones must have some kind of effect on dreams.

See, jadiz's dh gets it!

Infidelity is not funny.

The OP was funny because she is clearly barking mad like me in the respect of wanting an apology.

We need a bit of humour around the place at the moment.

So there.

Can't you dream he apologised? With flowers and diamonds, knock yourself out.

I have spent 20 years training him

Perhaps he can apologise to you in his dream tonight.

I hope he gets some dream hot action first though.

I once elbowed dp in the face when I was dreaming I was fighting a dream ow whilst he was watching us laughing. I was very apologetic but couldn't get it out of my head that he deserved it

My (then) DP realised he was in trouble for something I'd dreamed about. So he proposed. To get out of trouble.

Reader, I married him.

Arf at dream fighting, done that!

this thread is hilarious, I've dreamt dh has cheated though and it is really horrible some dreams feel so real I wouldn't expect him to apologise though! its not actually real you see. I've dreamt twice this week I've had mind blowing rampant sex with Katy Perry! I do not feel the need to share this 'infidelity' with dh!

Hahaha.

I used to dream DP cheated on me all the time the bastard.

Now when he does something wrong he jokingly gaslights that it wasn't him but "dream John" (name has been changed to protect the cheating bastard).

I feel you OP, I feel you..