aibu to think my dh should apologise for cheating on me

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In a dream last night?

Horrible dream, I woke up feeling sad and insecure. I told him and he gave me a big kiss and cuddle and ruffled my hair in a 'aren't you a daftie' kind of way.

But I think he should apologise but he doesn't think he should.

Aibu?

I think the OP was trying to be funny but failed.

If not then I agree with your dh,you are a nutter.

Lmao so you apologise op! It was your action from your dream. Maybe your iimagination wants a threesome

being sorry you are insane seems an entirely reasonable response.

He cheated twice in the dream, both girls were non identifiable dream people, no one I know. Luckily!

Take responsibility for your actions by dreaming it, you fruitloop

what a odd post.

DH apologised to me when I had a similar dream. But then I did wake up sobbing my heart out and shouting at him, so figuring that he'd done something wrong IRL he apologised profusely, cuddled me and stroked my hair until I resumed snoring and dribbling on him sleeping

DREAM CHEATING IS NOT OKAY.

DP used to do it alot in the early part of our relationship. He used to call me psycho so i stopped telling him about it....

If dh dream cheats it doesn't bother me. I dream cheat a lot which also doesn't bother me. I'm an unemotional cow.

DP once shot me, on an airplane. I was more annoyed about the fact it was an airplane, and he could have shot a hole in the side and we'd all have depressurised and crashed and died...

I have him well trained. He apologises to me for his my imaginary misdemeanours. In return I have to listen to his dreams, which are generally 3 hours long and could rival Tolkein. It's almost not worth the apology.

Foursome then op

I'm always cheating in my dreams, last time it was with Michael C Hall from Dexter. I'd be apologising none stop. I do feel guilty, but can't help it

I also have dreams where I know I'm dreaming and for some reason I become a rampant hussy and shag everything on legs.

Then I wake up and think why?

I dreamt that my DH was dead last night. Should he apologise to me or do I apologise to him? To be fair I was pretty devastated in my dream. Woke up to a message from him and realised he's not dead!

I haven't had a decent dream for ages. Best one ever involved Keanu Reeves... I'd just watched Point Break :)

Hate it when I dream he has died, it makes me be nice to him when I wake up!

Evening.

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MNHQ.

I can't believe how seriously some people have taken this!

I don't think the OP has failed at heing funny and I can't wait to tell my DH I am not the only nutter out there

Ooh yeah I once dreamt I accidentally killed DP in an argument and spent the rest of the dream sobbing... whilst trying to find a reliable way of disposing of his body.

Corr I felt terrible.

I get this all the time. My dh not only refuses to apologise, he responds by saying that he dreamed I owe him a million quid.

My BIL dreamt I was a serial killer nice. I was well on my way to wiping out the whole of a rather large city apparently.

I think he should apologise for making me into murderer.

serial killer once

You definitely need to apologise to him for thinking bad things about him!!!

Threads like this cheer me up because I remember that no matter how bad things are, I will always have common sense. Unlike some people.