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To be bitterly disappointed in my DW

90 replies

MDK · 07/10/2013 15:32

She says it's just for laughs and doesn't really mean anything to her but after years together, sharing our laughter and love it appears that she's had enough and moved on.

She's registered on a very similar forum to Mumsnet, with a very similar name. If it was another man I could cope, but this.. words fail me.

OP posts:
ziggiestardust · 07/10/2013 15:34

Can you elaborate a bit more?

Has she posted on another forum that she's had enough? Has she confirmed that it's her that's posting?

ziggiestardust · 07/10/2013 15:34

I'm really sorry you're going through this, though Sad

LRDtheFeministDragon · 07/10/2013 15:36

Your wife is a Nethun?!

Shock

No wonder you are feeling sad. I hope that one day, soon, we shall have convinced the government for the need of a support group.

Binkyridesagain · 07/10/2013 15:36

Do you mean she is over in the land of ticker tape and huns?

JamieandtheMagicTorch · 07/10/2013 15:36

I don't understand what you mean OP. Can you elaborate?

Bowlersarm · 07/10/2013 15:37

Direct her over here, Hun xxxx

attheendoftheday · 07/10/2013 15:38
Shock

But will you raise your dc to follow mn or nm?

gamerchick · 07/10/2013 15:38

Ah man there's nothing wrong with netmums.. It just has more fluff going on I think.

everlong · 07/10/2013 15:40

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Minnieisthedevilmouse · 07/10/2013 15:42

She's dumped mn for nm?

Wow.

Gotta be reason for divorce!

monal · 07/10/2013 15:46

LTB. You can't let your children grow up seeing you accept this kind of behaviour, it's unhealthy.

Binkyridesagain · 07/10/2013 15:47

SO what do want to do about this situation? is it something you can live with?

YouTheCat · 07/10/2013 15:48

Counselling - definitely.

If she starts 'hunning' it may be too late.

StepAwayFromTheEcclesCakes · 07/10/2013 15:48

LTB Shock

Bettercallsaul1 · 07/10/2013 15:55

This kind of infidelity shocks you to the core. You might forgive but would you ever forget? Grounds for divorce, sadly.

showtunesgirl · 07/10/2013 15:57

Oh dear. shakes head

Bettercallsaul1 · 07/10/2013 16:01

I think a quick, decisive break is called for, MDK. Don't raw things out with futile discussions or attempts at "understanding" - this is beyond the pale.

Binkyridesagain · 07/10/2013 16:01

OP please come back, I know that this is possibly a very difficult situation to come to terms with but I'm sure with the support of us here a mumsnet we can help you through this very difficult time.

Bettercallsaul1 · 07/10/2013 16:02

draw

Famzilla · 07/10/2013 16:07

How bad has it got? Has she started hunning? Forgetting 2/3's of the letters required to form words?

This must be very hard for you Flowers

Bettercallsaul1 · 07/10/2013 16:16

No, Binky, this is one of these situations from whence there is no return. OP's wife has crossed the Rubicon, I'm afraid and now must live with her rash decision. She was tempted, through weakness and bad judgment, and has succumbed to an inferior discussion forum.

Binkyridesagain · 07/10/2013 16:18

I'm thinking of the OP. His wife has to live with this, he doesn't.

LizaTarbucksAuntie · 07/10/2013 16:19

has she... lost her vowels?

Poor the all of you :(

Bettercallsaul1 · 07/10/2013 16:40

That's why an immediate split is imperative. The OP could well suffer some kind of contamination/infection from this situation - a loss of control of his "x"s, for example. Stay away, I say! Save yourself.

nowthenmardybum · 07/10/2013 16:48

Oh dear god, LTB!

How you holding up op? Is there anyone in RL you can confide in or are you too embarrassed?