To be bitterly disappointed in my DW

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She says it's just for laughs and doesn't really mean anything to her but after years together, sharing our laughter and love it appears that she's had enough and moved on.

She's registered on a very similar forum to Mumsnet, with a very similar name. If it was another man I could cope, but this.. words fail me.

Where has the OP gone?! We haven't heard from him again. I hope he hasn't (gulp) done anything stupid!

LTB

She's gone over to the twinkly side? LTB!

Better you don't think they have taken him?

Come back, op - we're worried about you! It's good to talk. (on Mumsnet obviously - not (shudder) - elsewhere.)

I wouldn't put it past them, nowthen - he may have been silenced.

a net huns widower.....
oh dear god. wont somebody think of the children? i would attempt counselling before LTB.....there is always hope.
and you cant swear over there. i know. i tried. what in gods name is she thinking?

I fear the op may be sleeping with the fishes. (Or making the dc's tea)

You're so right, Vicarina, but so often the children are just not considered. What kind of example is this to give op's dds? Impressionable young minds, tsk tsk.

Sorry folks had to actually work yesterday for a change, this wasn't a post and run!

I'm not sure how I stand legally, will divorce proceedings take into account the level of betrayal in evidence here?

On a more serious note I did have a look over there last night, it's not pretty.

not pretty?!

but hun... it sparkles!

Unreasonable behaviour, beyond the shadow of a doubt. Not a judge in the land would deny you.

I like netmums. It is a gentler place. I would post there rather than here, if I was feeling fragile.

Relieved to see you back, OP - was getting worried. Yes, definitely grounds for divorce in itself - nothing else needed. (Unless, of course, the judge had affiliations with the OTHER SIDE)

Grennie - I hope you''re not going to say nice, reasonable things and ruin this thread!

Does she take her phone and/or computer thingy to the bathroom with her? As I have read that this is the major factor in affairs?

I feel your pain, have you thought about "accidentally" leaving superglue on her fingers?

Will nobody think of the children?!

Youthecat We can only pray that Op gets sole custody. In this case, I think that would be a foregone conclusion.

Does she have a ticker?
Counting down in hours, minutes and seconds til the next time she goes shopping?
Or counting the number of seconds it's been since she last smiled?

That place gives me a headache. And makes me shudder.

I'm actually banned from there now. I am devestated.

I was on netmums before I came here. I was getting sick of it mad found myself wanting to tell people to fuck off or grow the fuck up a lot but of course I couldn't do that. That's not the way there.

I like it here.

Don't insult the tickers, how else would we know when it was a random strangers time of the month?!

You have my sympathies. I accidentally went there once and I strained my eyes. I have never told dh about what I did, I just wore sunglasses for a few days and he suspected nothing.

I'm back on the right track now and will never stray again.

Hidden home - Glad you have seen the light! Forgive yourself for this one mistake and put it behind you. To err is human...

Maybe you could suggest relate?

You poor thing :(

Find out her login credentials then log in as her and swear a lot. Her account will be toast. Problem solved.