im unsure what to do, please help

[anonandsad]

Hi i was wondering if anyone could help im at my witts end. Im 32 and my paternal grandad raped me when iwas 8 up until i was 14. No one knows, he died recentley and his funeral is next wk. I dont think i can go!!! How can i explain that to my family!!! Please help

OH - Mine stopped over 40yrs ago and only last 5yrs or so found I wasn't the only one

DHfor Ducks - she has said it's her paternal GF.