Quick background, recently moved to a new area, 35 weeks pregnant, and due for a check up. I've tried to find a local NHS dentist, and been told there is zero availability, I am on an NHS co-ordinated waiting list which is likely to be 6 months plus, but will enable me to access emergency treatment if needed.
I've been ringing round and managed to find an NHS dentist an hours journey from home (2 hour round trip), who have offered me a registration appointment at ohmygoditsearly o'clock tomorrow. I am reasonably chuffed with this, as it means I get seen before I get too close to my due date, and the idea of not being registered with a dentist is quite alien to me. My OH however thinks I am barking mad to consider driving that far at 35 weeks pregnant, and thinks I should either just not register with anyone, and if I need emergency treatment to access the NHS waiting list service, or alternatively just register and pay privately for treatment closer to home. He's also pointed out the cost of fuel to get there, and the impracticality of doing the journey with a little baby once it arrives. Even if I go privately it will still probably be half an hour or more journey, as there is just nowhere near home that is taking on patients at the moment.
Am I being unreasonable / unrealistic?