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Opinions on DD's Halloween party outfit.

20 replies

justanothernotsoyummymummy · 25/09/2013 23:04

She's 16.

Is being a devil. Wearing: short black skater skirt, black wedge heels, sparkly red tank top and fishnet tights. Tail, devil ears and wings.

AIBU to want her to ditch the fishnet tights? I'm fine with short stuff but fishnet tights look so tacky and the rest looks fab!

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Jellybeanz1 · 25/09/2013 23:06

This all looks a little tame after the ASDA shock 'mental patient ' thread.

justanothernotsoyummymummy · 25/09/2013 23:08

jellybeanz1, it does doesn't it? Blush I only read that thread after posting this.

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NoComet · 25/09/2013 23:15

I'm a child of the '80's I often went to discos in fishnet tights, for me they just saved money. They are much harder to ladder.

Fishnets are certainly what I'd put with a stylised devil costume, it needs that touch of the Gothic.

hashtagwhatever · 25/09/2013 23:17

fish nets all the way

Jellybeanz1 · 25/09/2013 23:26

'tame' answered your own question?

missingmumxox · 25/09/2013 23:36

fishnets..another 80's girl :) where not only harder to ladder, they seemed warmer than tights (or stockings as my fishnet most def where) mid lenght shirt dress and belt, sorted! from age 15 and not as dress up, daily walk round town, I think my mum thought they where tame as she was a child or the 60's and the mini.

MrsMongoose · 25/09/2013 23:41

I LOVE fishnets! I always manage to get fishnet stockings and suspenders to work with every fancy dress costume I do!

LouiseD29 · 25/09/2013 23:45

Why is she wearing wings as a devil? misses point of thread

StuntGirl · 26/09/2013 00:41

Because the devil was a fallen angel?

EricIsMine · 26/09/2013 00:47

Maybe put a pair of tights under the fishnets as a compromise? But then I'd put some rips in the fishnets to make them more gothy Grin

DumSpiroSpero · 26/09/2013 01:09

Bright red tights under the fishnets?

NoComet · 26/09/2013 01:29

Yes fishnets were much warmer and at 1am in the mid Welsh hills warmer was definitely a plus.

coraltoes · 26/09/2013 06:24

I'd say no way to fishnets. Not very appropriate for a teen

LindyHemming · 26/09/2013 06:26

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CoffeeTea103 · 26/09/2013 07:46

Yes the fishnets are tacky. Not appropriate imo

QuietNinjaTardis · 26/09/2013 08:07

I wore fishnets as part of fancy dress as a 16 year old. Aren't Halloween costumes supposed to be a bit tacky? Be thankful she's not a naughty nurse.

monkeymamma · 26/09/2013 08:22

Anyone remember a jilly cooper short story where the girl won't wear skirts cos she thinks she doesn't have nice legs, then she meets a lovely boy and he buys her a pair of fishnets for Christmas? (Which apparently give her great legs!). no advice to offer as I don't have any teenage dd myself but I did love fishnets at her age (or slightly older).

WMittens · 26/09/2013 08:30

I'd say no way to fishnets. Not very appropriate for a teen

It's just a bit Rocky Horror, fits with the pantomime horror theme, what's the problem?

farewellfigure · 26/09/2013 15:29

I LOVE that Jilly Cooper book. I may have to go and dig it out. I wish fishnets could transform my thunder thighs!

Ah let her wear them. Halloween is tacky anyway.

NoComet · 27/09/2013 00:52

Oh for Fucks sake a 16 year old is old enough to have sex (heaven help us - DD1 is almost 16).

We are not talking about the sexualising of children we are into the rights of women to dress how they like and still be treated reasonably and with respect.

I don't know how you don't send out mixed messages, there are several threads on schools and short skirts that certainly mess it up.

Anyhow a Halloween devil in sequins and a short skirt would wear fishnets, it's just what works.

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