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BigFatLeaf · 21/09/2013 14:38

Name changed because this will definitely out me!

I was at a seminar on tax law the other day (exciting I know!) and we were being tutored on the married couples allowance. The lecturer said it also applies to civil partners and said "bit of a joke though really, I mean how many couples do you know over 70 in a civil partnership" in an extremely sarcastic tone. He then went on to basically scoff at the notion of elderly gay couples and make "jokes" about "raunchy grannies"

AIBU to think this is out of order and consider reporting him?

What on earth is odd about older gay couples? They are just as bloody acceptable as younger ones.

And why is lesbian sex considered "raunchier" than normal sex?

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LimitedEditionLady · 21/09/2013 14:55

What a narrow minded person.just because they dont know anyone in that circumstance doesnt mean it doesnt exist.

OxfordBags · 21/09/2013 14:56

He is an ignorant, bigoted idiot. Certainly in the USA, the movement for equal marriage has been spearheaded by many elderly gays and lesbians, many of whom have been waiting decades, sometimes 50 years or more, to marry the person they love. Without decades of campaigning from the older members of the LGBT community, they wouldn't have half the rights they do now, never mind civil partnerships and marriage.

Lesbian sex is only considered raunchy by immature misogynists.

Report this twat!

OxfordBags · 21/09/2013 14:57

PS Lesbian sex is also considered raunchy by lesbians, heheh!

BlingBang · 21/09/2013 14:58

Sounds like an ignorant dick. Surprised someone hasn't said something before about his inappropriate manner.

JoinYourPlayfellows · 21/09/2013 14:59

Ugh, what a creep.

And what a totally stupid thing to say on a public platform like what.

How could he not realise how bad it would sound?

Raunchy grannies? Hmm

There's nothing wrong with older women having sex, whether with men or women.

FloraFox · 21/09/2013 15:03

That's out of order, YANBU. No doubt he would say you are being a humourless feminist if you report him. Then again, as a tax lawyer, I'm not surprised he has no clue about humour.

Anniegetyourgun · 21/09/2013 15:03

So um... civil partners over 70 are raunchy and ludicrous, but married couples over 70 aren't. Presumably, then, lesbian grannies get more sex than straight ones. Damn... is it too late for me to change?

And yes, report the bigoted idiot.

FloraFox · 21/09/2013 15:04

To be clear, I meant him as the tax lawyer, not me. I'm not one of those. Smile

magicstars · 21/09/2013 15:04

YANBU. You should def Complain.

SPBisResisting · 21/09/2013 15:07

What does he think happens to lesbian couples as they get older exactly?

TheRunawayTrain · 21/09/2013 15:18

What does he think happens to them? They are forced to split up at 60? Hmm

SupermansBigRedPants · 21/09/2013 15:34

I'm not sure I'd have been able to hold my t

SupermansBigRedPants · 21/09/2013 15:41

Fecking dp phoned so I pushed post!

I meant to say I'd not have been able to hold my tongue, things like that rile me right up.

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