First meet with online dating guy scheduled for tomorrow lunchtime. He left it to me to choose somewhere I'd feel comfortable so I chose Moseley thinking it was a cool place to meet
, though don't know it that well. Now I haven't got a clue where to say we'll meet - we're both in our 50s - and don't want to end up in a pub.
Getting in right state over this 
AIBU to think someone with local knowledge can pick me out a location (with parking) and decent coffee and atmosphere and not noisy etc etc